DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend, “Paul,” and I have been dating for four years. He has recently started talking about purchasing an engagement ring for me. Paul is well-off, although very frugal, which is how he accumulated most of his wealth.

Paul has been searching online sites for a used ring. He says he “doesn’t want to waste his money on a new engagement ring when he can buy a used one.” This from a man who didn’t think twice about spending thousands of dollars to buy his son a brand-new car or a brand-new boat for himself. Am I wrong to feel I’m only worth a used engagement ring? I a...

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