DEAR ABBY: “Ralph” and I have been married two years. Two nights ago we had an argument, and he got mad and left. He was gone three hours. When he returned he screamed at me for what seemed like an hour. Finally, he went to bed.

I looked through his phone and found several text messages to his ex-wife. One said he still loves her. So I went through his e-mail and found more correspondence. When I confronted him, the first thing out of his mouth was her name. They have an 18-year-old daughter and have been divorced for 13 years. To top it off, she’s married and pregnant.