DEAR ABBY: A co-worker, “Marilyn,” recently returned from time off with a noticeably different face. She said nothing about it, so we didn’t either for a while. Finally, one woman remarked to her that she appeared to have had “some work done.” Abby, Marilyn denied it!

What’s considered proper here? Should we have said something initially about her radically changed appearance? We were afraid if we ignored it she’d be disappointed. Having spent that much money and gone through that much pain, wouldn’t she have been crushed if we hadn’t? – INQUIRING MINDS IN PASADENA

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