We all have moments of infuriating frustration.
You know, those unexpected situations -- large or small -- that set us on edge and cause us angst.
Then just when we think nothing else can go kaput, something more happens to cause our blood to boil or our outlook to sour.
Of course, I am not speaking about life-changing or dire events where there is real reason for sorrow and tears.
No, I am referring to those "that's life" scenarios that interrupt an otherwise pleasant day and throw our well-intentioned schedules and plans out the proverbial window.
Perhaps we so-called adults, especially us seniors, should be better able to cope with anything, right? Surely we should not be thrown off track by niggling annoyances that aren't nearly as bad as we might make them out to be.
After all, we have repeatedly been told that with age comes wisdom and patience. And maybe a better ability to problem-solve, too? Ultimately, I suppose how one reacts to these irritations is somewhat dependent on personality and experiences.
I was born under the sign of the Ram (Aries) so despite some of my said-to-be good qualities -- courage, generosity, independence -- I can still be short-tempered and impatient. Try as I might to subvert them, those characteristics are still in play at times, particularly when something fizzles or goes awry.
But, luckily for me -- and I hope this is the case for everyone who encounters those brief yet bothersome setbacks -- there are good people who will rally 'round to offer encouragement and even help restore one's sense of humor.
And, yes, it may be a well-worn adage, but "Laughter is the best medicine" for those aggravating vexations.
Be they friends and neighbors or acquaintances and even virtual strangers, so many individuals have a penchant for showing their concern for others. Having just recently been the recipient of such solicitude and largesse, I can attest to the caring nature of most persons.
And when one is feeling piqued or provoked, a kind word, a telephone call, a text or an email can make a huge difference in improving one's attitude about his or her predicament.
Truth be told, there will always be irksome occasions but it's nice to know there will always be someone out there to ameliorate the agitation.
In retrospect, my series of small disruptions was a brief drag but my gratitude to everyone who offered their "aid and comfort" is endless.
I hope I can return the favor when needed.
Editorial on 09/14/2019